Yeah you have to approach her and then she starts, but I don’t think there’s a “Wait, I’m not into this!” Option.
And it’s a pretty high check. So that’s why I was referring to her as an evil dominatrix type.
It sounds like my Lolth Sworn Lady Drow is going to have to work to get her ladies in line :p
But on a more serious note, if it is like the Minthara scene, you have the option to back out and when you 'take control' it is a consensual swapping of roles. With all the other considerations Larian is putting into people's freedom, including pronoun choices, I doubt they are going to purposefully add nonconsensual material in a titillating way. Even the 'torture' scene in the Goblin camp is 100% consensual for the PC.
