this is something I find a thousand times more interesting than rules-lawyering minutiae. Moderators, if that's out of line, I'll happily edit
There is room in my life - and on these forums - for discussing both representations of sex in the game and rules-lawyering minutiae. We don't have to choose! Unless we want to of course, and anyone is free to opt out of one or the other.
As to whether that's an okay thing to say, you know already that it makes me itchy when I think people are being insulted, and implying that what's going on elsewhere I guess could be taken as mildly derogatory. But I hope that most people would take it in good part and I feel I've been doing a lot of telling off lately, which I don't enjoy. So as long as it goes no further, I will let it slide this once
