the only good and bad things I genuinely care about are the ones according to my taste.
Well Larian didn't make the game specifically for you and this close to release the design choices are final. It's time to accept or move on. This is too large of a game to expect Larian to listen to each and every one of your issues. Ultimately they had to do what they thought was best for the game even if you disagree and don't like it. No game is ever made for one person...especially not one as large as BG3. If you went into EA expecting everything to be changed to your specific tastes, you had the wrong idea.