You just very cleanly demonstrated my earlier point about equating "caring about the numbers" with min-maxing. Again, to me min-maxing is milking every aspect of the system to maximise relevant stats. Not saying "I want to be a wizard with high intelligence." Because there is a vast gulf between those two things. In the interest of having a fruitful discussion, how would you describe min-maxing? I don't want to be arguing against an imaginary version of your argument.
For me minmaxer in regards to BG3 are those people who say that you can only play optimal race/class combinations and that everything without maxed primary stat suck, are unplayable, not competent or less hyperbolic, have to constantly struggle, because they miss out on 5% success chance.
Although I would also count people who for example use respec to go in and out of multiclassing depending on what is more optimal like fextralife suggested or use respec to dump a stat once they found a "set stat to 19" item.
