So the remaining questions are : did the sex scene writers, choreographers and directors receive Niara's feedback (or player feedback in general), or was feedback processed by system designers only ? And if the sex scene creators received the feedback, did they rework the sex scenes to make it look less like cheap porn ? We'll know soon enough.
As a side (and off-topic) note, the same sort of questions would apply to the cinematography in general. We had a player once who made a good post explaining how and why the scene of the skirmish at the Grove's Gate was very poorly shot. Again, we'll see if that sort of feedback was taken on board when we get our hands on the full release version.
Let's hope!