Gods, no! That's just terrible handholding. This destroys the whole point of reactivity. Just play as you as you will and go with what happens.
+1
I too subscribe to 'no notifications' In my real life, I dont get notifications lol, if I did my life would be SOOOOO much different right now I'm positive.
This is bad logic.
In real life, you can go up to your friend and strike up a conversation about practically anything. And your friend will probably talk about it. In this game, if you don't hear your companion talk about something at ONE SPECIFIC TIME, you'll just miss it forever. It's a bit silly to leave interactions up to chance or to make players constantly alt-tab to the BG3 wiki if they're paranoid they're going to miss some content.