In general heterosexual female players in BG3 have better (in the sense of more attractive) choices than hetero males in my opinion. So far the only options are Shadowheart and Minthara. But if you don’t want to kill the druids, that only leaves Shadowheart, which is a pity.
Yup. This is my situation as well. And since I would harshly call out SH for being a Sharran, there'd be no romance option there either. So BG3 does not give me a reasonable romance option as a strongly good-oriented straight male.