I've only just started playing the game (this is my first comment in this forum) and the discussion here leaves me disheartened. I'm not a prude (I'm a closet naturist FWIW) and whole heartedly advocate for and support sex positivity. But I'm also a woman and a sexual assault survivor. I play games for enjoyment and to disconnect from RL worries for a while. I already have to deal with unsolicited dick pics, harassment, cat calls, people who don't know how to accept "No" as an answer, the constant unending stream of women's body's being hypersexualised and objectified, etc., etc., etc. I don't need skody digital characters who can't control themselves to slide into my game time too.
If I wanted to play a game where I can boink everything in sight, I would play NSFWare or whatever (there's plenty of sex games out there). But I want to play BALDUR'S GATE - I played the first 2 (and Neverwinter Nights and Planescape Torment, etc.) for the D&D and story, not for sex and certainly not for harassment.