yes, that is what I mean. He suggests meeting up after everyone has gone to bed, then when you go to sleep you select astarion, but there is no scene (it goes to black screen and then the morning). I had the first sex scene way before the party. is there only one sex scene per character? people mention this here: https://www.reddit.com/r/BaldursGate3/comments/15io7dp/only_1_sex_scene_per_origin_character/
