Finally making an account here but yes the steam forums are just bloody awful. They're usually always pretty bad and filled with the usual 'gamer' types or incredibly dumb people who can't follow installation instructions to save their life - but man the fact that BG3 features so many bisexual romance options feels like it just ticked off the 'gamer' crowd and has set the place on fire for the past week. I've taken a fair share of laughs though because you can pretty easily tell the people with zero familiarity of D&D culture, Baldur's Gate, or RPG's. My favorite one was a special user ranting about how the game was incredibly woke and deviated from BG 1 and 2 by being turn based and how this wasn't accurate to the source material.

Ultimately I would always stay away from steam discussions unless you just woke up and chose violence this morning and go looking for an idiot to argue with.