I agree with the fact romance is not gated / subtle enough.
I understand the need for player sexual centric NPC to cater for every whimsical fantasy combination possible, even if preset tastes would actually provide better immersion (e.g. preventing shadow heart hitting on a gith, karlash on a gnome, mintara on an old half orc)
I understand also the game demographic will include a large portion of late teenagers / young adult who, statistically, are sexually frustrated.
Still, it might be useful to remind that making a positive comment on someone and wanting to shag are two entirely different things even in 2023. In the real world people do enjoy having friends, male or female, without needing to go further especially when they are already with someone else.
In short we should be able to gate these via a dialog option at the very least.
Adult games are great, games for adults are better
