Just registered to upvote this. Being able to change your appearance when you have a customizable main character is a must. Regarding realism or immersion, you get kidnapped by tentacle-headed monsters, get a worm shoved into your eye, literally go to hell and fight devils, then fall from the sky and are saved at the last second by an unknown magical force. This ain't Game of Thrones, this world is overflowing with magic! Heck, Withers can completely change your class, which if you think about it would be like completely changing your past so that you have different skills. Why not give him the ability to change your looks too. Maybe it can cost a soul coin?
Anyway, please, please, PLEEEZ, give us appearance respec!
Thanks.