No, sorry I can't agree with you there. Not just because of how she was written in Early Access, which was explicitly based upon romantic feelings, but because of her writing in the release version (where she specifically says she slept with you 'for her' not the absolute), and Larian's own words over the panel from hell.
Mitnhara was *the* sex scene everyone was talking about in EA, and Larian specifically called her out as the 'reward' for sticking through all the Teifling murder. She still has lines and scenes in the game as mentioned above indicating your relationship is a 'romance'. They called her a 'lover' during the Release Day PFH.
It's borderline gaslighting to say that she wasn't/isn't a romance option, and wasn't presented to players as one at this point.
Her bare-bones 'romance' is a bait and switch. There's no getting around that.
