Put me on the list of people who finds this just too much. Gale's first scene isn't just him being pushy it's also telling me I'm into the romance of the situation and as a lesbian I am really NOT into guys telling me I'm into them. Halsin comes into this pretty strong based on virtually no interaction. And as for act 3
the guardian hitting on me is UNBELIEVABLY creepy.

It's also really disrespecting the history of Baldurs Gate. BG2 really launched this romance in games thing and no game has even close to matched it down to a simple matter of depth. Even if the writing was videogame quality it was the culmination of a lot of getting to know the character. As an example Jaheira's romance was triggered after forty conversations geting to know her and multiple times of pushing the conversations in a romantic direction. Halsins was triggered on the second conversation and he propositions you on the fifth, none of which were romantic in any form.

Getting the option to head these off at the pass should be the absolute bare minimum.