I would make another poll that rephrases the question more specifically. Perhaps "Is the overall experience in BG3 too horny or suggestive?" rather than "Is BG3 too sexualized?"
While the sample size in these replies is small, I do notice a divergence in opinions between the three posters that have identified as women (or that I vaguely recall have identified as women), and posters who do not. I wonder if the problem is not BG3, but rather differences in evaluations of what does and does not constitute suggestive behavior on the part of certain gender identities? Not sure what that implies, but it is an observation.
The problem is the use of the word 'too'. The word implies relative to something else.