The problems described wouldn’t go away by discarding playersexuality, unless it is specifically the romances’ gender combinations you do not like.
Imagine if a companion had a set sexuality, and you wanted to let them down, but they kept pestering you over it. The problem would still exist w/o playersexuality, and it sounds like that is the complaint from people in Act 3.
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