As has already been pointed out, this is a fantasy game; it is not a sports simulator. Do you think you would know what day it was if an ogre smacked you on the head with half a tree? Could you take several hits from arrows and still carry on, while hitting as hard as you did at full health?
How many times in BG3 have you been hit with acid and left covered from head to toe and standing in a puddle of it until you take two steps forward and out of the puddle and the acid mysteriously disappears? How realistic is that?
To say that if your an adventurer your spending all your coin on food and drink, your completely wrong.
The reason I quoted that sentence is because you used the word "your" four times and three times you used it incorrectly. Outside of fantasy and in the real world the word you were looking for was "you're". It should have been: you're (you are), you're, your and you're.
Have you EVER seen a fat Elf of any kind?
Never seen any kind of elf in real life but I have seen elves of all shapes and sizes in my modded Skyrim. I have played Skyrim as a teenage girl; a teenage boy; and old woman; an old man (which is what I am) and all points and combinations in-between and umpteen different races and even species. I did that because it is my game and I can play it how the hell I want to.
I could also point out that in the Norse eddas, dwarfs and elves are the same thing.
For anyone who is interested, here is the thicc mod I mentioned earlier:
https://www.nexusmods.com/baldursgate3/mods/833
