This discussion is more likely to be constructive if people stick to expressing their own views and preferences, and recognise that they are their own views and preferences rather speaking for others or making what look like quite strong and emotive claims as though they are objectively true. Given the huge variety of opinions and tastes, and that many players and forum members clearly don't see the romances in the game as, eg, "weird fetish porn" that's inevitably and unnecessarily going to be controversial, and potentially derail this thread.
[spoiler][/spoiler]Not looking to argue but I think many share this sentiment, it's at least worth discussing whether this adds or detracts from the game.
People are welcome to discuss what they like, as long as it is on-topic, within forum rules, and discussed constructively, calmly and without heated argument. I'd suggest your comments were both not strictly on topic here, and also given that strong and emotive statements tend to prompt equal (and sometimes opposite) reactions, not calculated to promote calm and constructive debate even if it were on topic.
I'm sure many of us here feel we've had enough discussion of bear sex and would much appreciate a break from talking about it. And I don't think the thread that was created about dragonborn sex got a lot of interest. But feel free to search them and if you think you have something new to add to the debate, you are free to create a thread on the topic, and as long as it's started in good faith and with the intention of encouraging constructive debate and sharing of opinions of all kinds, I'll allow it. Though frankly I'd enjoy a few days of just talking about other things that after all do constitute the vast majority of the game, and are less likely to lead to people getting worked up, making unintentionally or intentionally offensive comments or otherwise breaking forum rules.
"You may call it 'nonsense' if you like, but I've heard nonsense, compared with which that would be as sensible as a dictionary!"