Originally Posted by Tarlonniel
Originally Posted by Silver/
As I understood it, he's poly and not... a serial monogamist.

I didn't mean to imply the latter, just that once he becomes interested in someone else as well, his focus is going to be... divided. You'll no longer be the only subject of his romantic attentions, whether you like it or not. It would be nice to have some idea of how long your current status is likely to last (a few months? a few years?).
Yeah, not all relationships necessarily have the same depth. Him being poly doesn't mean you can't marry, just as one outcome. The lack of communication is grating.