Fresh inductee, you have my full support... Spoiled the game for myself last night because I was searching for workarounds to what I perceived to be progression bugs, only to find out that, no... they're not bugs. Spoiled it further by exploring the other characters and their conclusions, which dented my experience even more. I echo those who cannot bring themselves to finish the game now. I have two ongoing characters (wanted to play a Bardladin and a Ranger/Rogue, so I did), both just flowed naturally into exhausting all interactions with all characters and trying to at least improve their situations, only to find out that I might as well stop playing, because it won't matter that much...
I even thought about doing my best to get the Tav goes with Karlach ending, but having found out that it may be unavailable to me depending on how much I care to work on Wyll's quest just completely pulled me out of it...
I'm literally heartbroken right now. I've cried about this game and my, as of now, somewhat wasted investment of over 350 hours. And maybe that's my fault, maybe I have an unhealthy investment in this game, but, from my perspective, you can't put out a work of art and expect people to not have a reaction to it. Can't and don't want to imagine how I would've felt if I had to find out by finishing the game...
Welcome, and yeah, it's really rough and we can only hope to keep the voice loud, but also respectful to see the change in the future.