Well, hopefully that does explain some of the issues people have been seeing as it sounds like something that should be relativiely easily fixable.
(The bit about triggers being locked in and not reset, that is. Personally, I like the fact that my PC doesn't have to always initiate the romances so hope the fact that some players are getting pestered can be fixed without removing what I see as a desirable feature.)
I don’t disagree that having some of the NPCs attempt to initiate romance with the PC in an natural and organic way sounds fun. I think it is just a very demanding concept to implement properly. I don’t fault Larian for trying and (in my view) failing, but, perhaps they should have spent a bit more time and resources on this feature if they wanted to take that on? Just my take.