I think there are a couple factors about durge v tav that are worth keeping in mind when talking about which people should play. Firstly, it sounds like for all you can make them look how you want, Durge had their own backstory and you can't actually create your own character, which is a big thing for people playing this type of game. Secondly, it's not just a matter of durge struggling to be good, there is a level of darkness and grimness that not everyone will want to deal with with their own character. Its one thing to have a complicated past, it's another to constantly be assaulted by your character having some truly horrifying thoughts and actions that are sometimes out of your control. The level of darkness in this game is overall fine for me, but some of the stuff I've heard about the durge feels like it goes across a line that for me personally means I'll never actually play it despite having considered it before when I first learned about it.