Originally Posted by Count Turnipsome
Don't like it don't use it as long as your having fun (sarcasm).

Reporting in! So why the sarcasm? What do you have against people just having fun? Could you show us on Astarion's model where the fun hurt you?

Many people are already doing "no reload" runs as is, even though there is no ironman/honour mode implemented in the game. So just challenge yourself with no-respec. Alternatively, there could be an option, where Withers doesn't offer respecs at all, but (this is the crucial bit) it should be an option.