I just know that I wasn't even paying attention to romance, not engaging, not horribly fending off either.. I was eyeing Shadowheart for maybe have a romance later... until:

Lae'zel with that commanding voice just... took me. My female half-drow had no intention at all of hooking up with a gith. But me, a male human person roleplaying as a female char, got seduced by Lae'Zel. I literally got horny. I just couldn't say no to her, not me, not my char. My strong drow just became a little girl and said "ok".

I guess my point is: this was very well done if the intuit is to really have horny stuff in the game. I can see people who are not interested in that getting bugged by it.