i did the underdark, ethel, patrol, the goblins and then the forge ... no one knew what i carried and Lae'zel is still happy to be in my party

the creche seams to boil down to 'follow protocol' or don't with Lae'zel which makes good story telling imo

Luke Skywalker: I don't, I don't believe it.
Yoda: That is why you failed.