Not to be a "don't like it don't use it"-er, but that's really all I can say. If you choose to use it, well that's your choice, and the thing is BG3 has been HUGE, the percent of people playing it that don't know anything at all about DnD is much larger then the ones that do. So why do you want to actively punish people who make a poor choice simply because they don't pre-emptively understand DnD mechs so they -through no fault of their own, could NOT make an informed decision?
The respec is cheap for THOSE people, not for people who want all their picks to weigh on them
Don't suggest punishing people that don't understand the mechs of a game genre they've never played just because some of us do