This should still be one of the biggest issues but it seems most ppl have resignated...
Well... I'm actually using a mod to deal with issues like Shove or other "fun" Larian homebrew stuff.
I will certainly mod this too but larian should be aware of how much that impacts the core D&D rules. Like this the combat does not work as intended in those rules. They added their "larian fun stuff" so it feels more like DOS or whyever.
I have no issues usually but changing parts of a given ruleset changes the whole way those rules work. You can easily break a game like that and they did. With shove as it is it invalidates a lot of other abilites. Jump is the same. It just sucks to see it.
It probably is time to start modding...:(