Does not bother me much. I played parts of Act 1 and most of Act 2 on Tactician and was shoved to death once (boat on Underdark river, a classical) while I shoved once too, a goblin in the temple, to try it.
But tastes matter, If you are so annoyed, take consequences. I'm really annoyed by Larian's riddle ridden quest design, a curse I already knew from D:OS 2 which hit me fully at least at the start of Act 3. So both RPGs of the beloved producer might remain unfinished by me. Stop playing if you don't like game core features, because frankly said, it will not be changed just because you or me don't like it. Instaed I'm glad that Jagged Alliance 3 is around and Starfield soon releasing, I don't care about BG3 that much. Seek similar distraction.