I just went to camp to do a bit of respeccing and Withers brought up the subject of Lae'zel and I being an item then when Shadowheart stepped up to get respecced he asked her about not having a love interest.
Withers challenged Minsc on not having a love interest in my game, when I took him to get respecced to more Minsc-appropriate stats. But perhaps that fits better in the romance trigger thread at
https://forums.larian.com/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=888410?