pick good or evil before you start
decide if you want to fight as your 1st option or talk... if you want to talk before solving problem with death then you want at least 14 charisma
honestly your sex, class and stats don't matter as much as those two and there are many options for dealing with most things... except the D20 artefact and putting bugs in your head all other options are voluntary i.e, apart from those 2 you can lean in or just ignore
