okay... I gotta be real, and I have to give you a life talk here.
Tops and bottoms are basically a fiction, in the vast majority of sexual relationships the sex can or should be mutual in all regards. At most the idea is a joke, and a fun little game people play.
And in relationships where there is a dominant/submissive power dynamic, these power dynamics cannot and should not be determined by who is pitching and receiving so to speak.
This idea is an outgrowth of the extremely offensive idea that in a homosexual relationship there needs to be someone assuming the role of a man and woman, and it used to be an extremely offensive idea.
But ever since 50 shades of grey came out, people have been treating the idea of tops and bottoms like its an engrained scientific fact about biology, that everyone is one or the other.
I cant stress enough, how incredibly problematic your viewpoint is... if you cant wrap your head around what I am saying, try to wrap your head around this.
Being the receiver, does not mean you are not the "top" if you can wrap your head around that idea, you are going to have a better life trust me. And for the love of god get off tiktok and tumblr.
