okay... I gotta be real, and I have to give you a life talk here.
This is a very bizarre post. "Top" and "Bottom" are just coded language to refer to whether someone is the pitcher or the catcher, it doesn't have anything to do with BDSM. And while many people do both there are also definitely plenty of people who very much prefer to only do one or the other, for a variety of reasons (pleasure, medical, etc).
As for whether the game needs an option to pick for individual scenes I don't really care one way or the other. Larian certainly has other more important things to fix in the game right now.