My main problem with paladin right now is Control undead:

I didn't play pre patch, so l just kinda expected that the spell worked differently from summons, but l read from someone else that it used to work like a summon with its own controllable portrait like summons. I have been getting more and more annoyed by how differently it works now.
I want to control my undead, use its abilities and not just have it follow me around, do its own thing and then get occasionally stuck permanently causing me to have to get a new one and/or rest the charge back.
I had a problem by controlling a
Wraith
from it getting stuck from having a bigger hitbox to fit in some of the doorways, which causes the permanent freeze bug to happen, which waypoint teleporting does not fix.


I agree with the problem of withers and respeccing. I chose both str and dex and abandoned charisma until respec so l could use all weapon types. Broke my oath on purpose and went to respec at some point to see that l would have to use all of the saved up gold to fix the problem just to break my oath again on purpose.