1) Bethesda doesn't listen to player feedback at all and it shows - Larian has shown multiple documented instances of doing just that. You must be referring to the ingenious BG3 features like Jump / Shove, projectiles and bottles that hit even when they miss, the ability to throw bottles twice as far as the arrow from Longbow can fly, and countless others. All of them having an overwhelming support from the community.
People have an odd way of thinking that "listening" means "agreeing."