Even I might be being unnecessarily harsh on BG3 right now, because it fails in exactly the way I worried that it would fail and it has made me angry because I am so *tired* of watching Larian make the same mistakes over and over. With time, I might reevaluate it and judge it less harshly, once I'm over my disappointment and anger.
This entirely. You are judging the game through filter of your own disappointment. You didn't get things you wanted. I didn't get things I wanted either. No DM mode, the mod tools are not in place that we were expecting, no real way to build additional modules, content missing from Act 3, Act 3 in general incomplete, the multiclass system is broken and very exploitable, and overall not enough good multiplayer tools to help manage games long term.
However, just in the last month Larian has made major improvements to the game and is addressing concerns. It also doesn't change the fact that overall the game is insanely ambitious, with great writing, VA, and has started important conversations in the game community.
Long term I do NOT expect to get everything I want. Still the best game CRPG I have played in a long time, and certainly the most technologically advanced I have ever played.