Looking back at my initial post here...
1) Allow Character Creation with die rolls
Still nothing, hope someone figures out how to add this soon....
2) Put back the Racial bonus from 5E
The mod is here and works well...
https://www.nexusmods.com/baldursgate3/mods/5783) Put back God selection for all character types
The mod below is for everyone, there is also a mod just to add it to Paladins
https://www.nexusmods.com/baldursgate3/mods/2894) Full Custom party start for solo play
Still nothing on this. There are a few workarounds. The one I used is for my buddies to join my new game, make the exact character I ask for and then I am set. I just did this using my Wife's account to make a companion for my Paladin.
5) Increase party size to 5 or 6 (Solo and coop)
There is a mod for this but be careful using this. The increase party size can really break the game balance.
https://www.nexusmods.com/baldursgate3/mods/327=================================================================
Some other mods I did not know I wanted until we had them:
Additional Backgrounds, gives you more ways to make that character you envision. Not a big deal but a nice addition?
https://www.nexusmods.com/baldursgate3/mods/1874True Initiative fixes something I did not know was broke.
https://www.nexusmods.com/baldursgate3/mods/1115The final one I want to mention has a few options. I have seen people using AI to alter the voice files. I saw one where Astarion, was modified to make his voice female and then use other mods to make him female, very cool. The one however I really like is where they make a voice that has a deeper gruff to it, making it better for Dwarves.
https://www.nexusmods.com/baldursgate3/mods/2130