Well I'd say it's mostly more of a

"We'd very much like to Actually Help her BUT IF you want to double down and be dead set on this current tragic direction then AT LEAST give it proper weight", something like that

To clarify, I'd, like, VERY MUCH would love to actually save her 'cause as you've said, changing fates, actual impact, everything that we have with other companions but not with her, which feels very undeserved considering her whole character and story. That's the reason I came across this thread in the first place - the second Dammon dropped the news I ran to the Internet to make sure we can change that (SIGH)

But if for some reason we just can't have that no matter what (which I doubt, but IF), then at the very least I'd like the current storyline to not make me feel like a clown with the "ah well we did all we could!" notification after an extra-short fetch quest, y'know

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