.... I think you need to play through the game again, because the implications of the banter is... very much different than what you summarized. (Lae'zel basically says he sleeps with a lot of their enemies, he flirts and tries to lure romanced companions into bed with him, though Tav has already rejected him) And I never said he had more sex - I said he places more value on sex than personality from act3 on.

I am saying that Halsin in all other aspects of his life devotes himself to commitment, and that saying "I can't imagine my life without you" and "I belong at your side" are deeply implicating a commitment.

And yes, Halsin is very good at saying what HE wants and not giving Tav a chance to voice what they want or negating it. But please, just leave me alone. Clearly you have not taken notice of those things, and there is no reason why you need to. If you do not see the toxic implications then I am actually pleased for you, because it is awful.

But I do find it problematic how many tries to normalize gaslighting.