the same EXACT thing happened to me!!! romancing astarion when wyll's dance scene triggered around early chapter 2. i danced with him and then didnt kiss him, and holy fuck the look of heartbreak and pain on his face nearly killed me. i almost re-thought romancing astarion because of it LOL but then astarion will be sad too?? mann i hope they add a few more dialogue options to deny him that are nicer or something.. like the person above said- i dont want to telll wyll to fuck off but why cant i just dance with him platonically?