Well i don't like that the things are not accurate. Because as I played 1-2 differently and it was my own experience.

For me ist fine. And try to see it like this it could be end like this and not the way you or me remember and played it.

It could be a dnd campaign and bg3 is following those events.
For example the :


It also not lore accurate. But it was fine at least for me.