As for BG3 sales, I am perfectly comfortable in making the assertion that its sales are hugely driven by all the graphic nudity and gratuitous sex. My very conservative estimate would be that 50% of BG3 sales have been based on the nudity and sex. So that's why I shrug at BG3 sales numbers, am not at all impressed by or care about them, and don't at all see any relevance therein to other RPGs or RPG developers.
Ha! You know actual porn is free on the interwebs right?
"I bought it for the cartoon porn...best $60 I ever spent" LOL