Originally Posted by catclaw
I don't think some players, at least for me, are necessarily trying to mold their characters into what romanceable characters want. If that was the case, I don't see where the fun can be if players weren't given these options to do whatever players want with certain characters, or at least react/exchange dialogue however they want.

Fair, I get the feeling of it not being ideal. I am used to molding my characters since my poly OCs take on mono characterization in the game to be with romances I want to check out, romances that don't support options to create poly arrangements reflecting my interests and wholly reflective of the character's desire, like Gale and Wyll. I also make new, mono characters to mold to those characters that aren't open to poly. I think often of scenarios outside of the game to explore reactions unavailable in dialogue. I'm able to still find fun, although I recognize the hardship.