Ya we are playing on the same network we sit right next to each other. One thing I tried was having my partner use GeForce now thinking maybe it was because she was on Mac and I was on windows and I would assume that would be using a different IP but I’m not sure. Nothing I’ve tried has resolved the issue I’m going to try starting a new game with a different friend. I’ll try hosting on my and my partners computer and then have my friend host and join with both and see if I can find a common factor.