It is constantly implied, and it is a general manipulative strategy that is commonly used in gaslighting. It's emotional blackmail.


Coersive gaslighting/abuse:

"Coercion is a spectrum of behaviours. It ranges from convincing someone by using charm or seeming to be very caring. It can also be exerting pressure or being emotionally and/or verbally manipulative in order to get one’s way. Often the gaslighter uses something important or close to your heart as ammunition."

Halsin encourages Tav's emotions, while making implications of being a committed and loyal individual in general. Then when he actually start showing the first steps towards his romance he ONLY talks about what he wants.

He knows that Tav has developed feelings for him, and then comes with an ultimatum "I only do things this way. You have to accept that 100% and be willing to be like this, or I will withhold my affection for you."

That's abuse. What is worse is that it is "covered" by what seems informed consent and respect, but Tav is stripped of all agency. Tak into account that Halsin was also used as a specific example for the extent of player choice. And instead of having nuance you get a yes and no ultimatum.


Also, why is it only Halsin that gets to determine the rules of the relationship? This applies to literally no other romance in the game.

The botched his romance extensively.