Oh, I definitely am. There is no way to close Pandora's box. I am just saying that they fucked things up.

They are now given the unenviable task of fix it (if they ever will).

But I do see it is possible to make a compromise. It does mean, however, that as fans of him we are willing to compromise and not set up ultimatums for what we want.

Adding a monogamous option would not piss me off or feel that Polyamory and RA was no longer represented. But realistically, that is not going to happen.

So, like any healthy RA or poly person, I seek a compromise, while validating other people's feelings. smile