Especially because Halsin defines himself as fluid:

Being relationship fluid means that you don't follow social norms just because, but you make choices that are right for you and your partner.

Example: you should be married before having children

An RA (like myself) might not even find marriage necessary, and might not prefer that.

But what we would do instead would be to evaluate the relationship on an ongoing basis instead, and make rules that fit us and not society.

So at this point and time Halsin says "you are all I want", and he means that. But he also knows that it might change. So when that changes they have an open discussion about it.

Some RA remain in a relationship with one person, but not because society dictates it, but because it is what feels right to them. And when that is no longer relevant, you talk and evaluate and find a compromise both are happy with.

RA is not the rejection of relationships - it is the rejection of the idea that societies norms should dictate what any relationship should look like.

It is the pursuit of keeping your relationships healthy and happy, and recognize that at different stages, different parts of a relationship or different relationships take priority over another.


Halsin's fundamental issue is in fact that he is too rigid to adhere to the lifestyle he is meant to represent.