hmm. i think i would...

start monk

dump str, dump int

16 dex, 16 cha --the rest split between con and wis

then switch to sorcerer, draconic, for five levels --draconic for the ac boost and extra hp

then go back to monk for two more levels to get subclass

then... either get two more monk levels for extra attack or switch back to sorcerer to finish out with nine levels in sorcerer for fifth level spells

so, 5/7 or 3/9... obviously shadow monk

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the opening level of monk gives the bonus attack and allows weapons to be used with the dex modifier. that alone goes a long way for combat.

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both feats given to ability increases, dex and cha... cha first would be my leaning

urchin background for stealth and sleight of hand