I see your point, but as one of the rare monogamous RA we are never going to please everyone. Especially the ones who use it in a non-compromising way.

(Just to add some explanation: I am monogamous RA because this is my personal choice, not my partners. My partner is left fully open to the choice between monogamy and poly - that is his choice. My preference is not based on social norms, but because I am a demi-sexual getting a point of sexual attraction is rare. And also because I am very introvert and prefer my alone time, so dealing with more than one relationship at a time is simply too much work for my lazy hide XD. This is something that might change of course, but my INFJ mind is perfectly happy where it is at.)