Larian Studios Forums Baldur's Gate III Baldur's Gate III - Story & Character Discussion Do I have to sleep with Astarion during the party to begin romancing him?

Hi! In a multiplayer session and my friend and I might have messed up the order of things. Her rating wasn’t high enough for Astarion to want to sleep with her during the party. Now she’s really bummed out because she thinks she’s permanently locked out of romancing him since he didn’t want her then.

Is that true? Or have there been people that managed to romance him, after the party? Will it be different than if she were to have actually slept with him at the party?