For example, you were complaining about she being insecure/asking 3 times if Tav wants to be with her. Why don't make that the 2nd time she asks, she'll say something like:
"I'm not as pure as you might thing"
I'd be fine with that, it'd make for a good dialogue with the Dark Urge where you can then also admit to.. certain things in your past. However, the problem remains. Just like Dark Urge, she's an amnesiac, she evidently is no longer that person and was manipulated into it in the first place, the records in the House of Grief state she always strayed from their teachings so they had to repeatedly memory wipe her. So it doesn't make sense to write her - in those few specific scenarios - to suddenly be like that again, especially after all the positive influence you had over her, since it's already written in the game that so long as she has motive to stray from their teachings, she will. Which is very much proven by the fact that she betrays Shar for you.
I think you're wrong about the part of her doesn't remembering, in the Mizora scene she says that even with the little she can remember, she can tell us stories. So, I wouldn't say she doesn't remember. It sounds, if anything, that she got lots of sexual experience.
But to be fair, I'm saying this from the top of my head, and don't got time rn to double check that scene. I may be wrong.
